Life does goes ON!

Ever lost someone  in your life? We grieved for people that passed on BUT deep down inside of us, we know that they are in a better place. The person I missed the most is my grandpa, the fact that he is now with the Lord has brought great peace to me! Although at times, I still wished I could spend a day with him, telling him stories and things that happened to me! I really still wished he could see me right now, how far off I have gone on in life and still hear his voice, so calming, encouraging and loving! I know someday I will see him again in HEAVEN. This kind of loss although painful, we know deep down that special person leave loving us deeply.

 I remembered the tears that my grandpa shed when he's in ICU. We were asked to go in one by one to bid our last goodbye, the moment I went in he cried! I couldn't hold back my tears remembering that, that moment could be the last glimpse I would catch of him. He is deeply missed and I love him till today. This kind of lost we know will one day be compensate when its our time to leave. Life needs to go on till we meet again.

There is another kind of loss that hurt so much that "at that moment" we thought we couldn't survived anymore. This is the loss of someone that we thought will spend forever with us. Everyone of us had one story or another. We cried, we prayed, we walked around meaningless and even went into an anger fib at times. Depending what kind of situation we are in. The fact is that we all fell down like that before. Some of us fell from richness into normal life. This is hard-knocks of life. In finding "the one" we have gone through a lot of pain and tears. Met many disqualified people. Some even spend a long time with us like they are going to stay until they decided to walk out on us. 

It is never easy looking for our other half. I have my share of story that I have moved on from. The fact is that life do go on even though we might not have the strength to at that moment. If there is a need to cry! CRY! (I always say that) do not hold it inside of you and try to ACT strong! Acting strong will not solved the problem. Just go ahead have a good cry anytime you felt like it and then when the times come you will know that you have cried enough and crying and being emotionally down will not help you to start another chapter of life. People are attracted to positive people and not the opposite, therefore once you are down, sweep the pain off you door, wipe the tears off your face, put some make-up on, dress up and go on to meet that new person that will bring happiness in life. 

Life does go on.. That is what I wanted to say. All of us have lost someone either way before & I believe that we owe our self a good life. Wake up and walk strong and let go of that person that left, we are worth much more because like it or not we are worth much more than what we have been before, our experiences made us a better, stronger person. So the next time you are about to cry, remember Life does go on, cry if you want to! After that it's rise and shine.... (; (Trust me! God is good! I'm married now)