"The men can look like slobs, but women are expected to look nice! What's fair about that?"
~Marcella Boone - Theodore Boone's Mom in Theodore Boone: The abduction~
Of late there is an issue that is playing at the back of my mind! An issue that I felt strongly about. Everything in a women is being judge, from the head to the toe! Comments were passed from men and even from women! "Why is she such a slob" "That is one hell of a fat ass" "Where did she get those ugly shoes from" "Her hair needs trimming" and so on and so forth. These are some of the criticism I have overheard someone passed onto another and even some were said to me about a friend or two!
It is well rude but if you ladies are so well groom and naturally fits into size 2 without breaking a sweat then talk away! Sadly most of these words are said by people who are a little less than size 12 and worst still men in their slippers and pajamas t-shirt! The biggest punishment should come from a man who talks about his own wife without respect! "That fat lady at home" "That yellow face woman!" and etcetra etcetra! Well here is my comment about such harsh name calling!
You have no right to be calling your wife or any woman for that matter that way! Ask yourself
1) Did you earn enough for her to get help? Slimming? Facial? Nutritionist advise?
2) Did you provide her with an environment that enables her to have gym? Pool? or anything that suggest exercise?
3) Did you cringe the moment she try on a dress?
4) Complaint so much when she wanted a new pair of shoes?
5) Give her time out to be with her girlfriends?
6) Your mom and your sisters are all slim and proper and trim!
7) Are you Calvin Klein Model enough to pass judgement!
Please evaluate yourself before calling your wife or any lady fat, ugly or boring! Especially if that lady chose you out of so many other people and decided to let her former beauty goes by bearing your children! Come on! If you have fulfill the criterias above then it is the lady's fault for slacking! Get up ladies and hit the gym! Break out in sweats! Its sexy but please NO FACEBOOK POSTING! Nobody needs to see you in your sport bra all sweaty! Thank-you-very-much!
The most adverse feeling I could develop is a fat-ass sitting with his other equally deadbeat friends criticizing every person that walks by! Geez! I have been victim of those and I believe a lot of us had experienced that! Ok unless you are a supermodel! But then it can be quite harsh and it used to hurt me a lot earlier on but now I just don't bother! My point in this is be kind to one another and do not criticize! Hey its rude you know! Plus ladies remember one thing "One of the best thing that you can give your man other than standing by his side is looking good! He appreciates that!"
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