Since vacation is on the list, I guess money shouldn't be an issue right?
Why complain? Shut up and take the flight then!
With news of celebrities splitting left, right and center. From Japan, Korea to Bollywood and Hollywood we are informed everyday by whos and whos have split! It is really sad not because of who they are but because the essence of marriage has lost its meaning! People do not stay in love anymore! With quotes ranging from I grew out of love, we just grew apart, we do not have anything in common anymore being reasons behind separations and divorces, it seems meaningless to ever find a mate in the first place!
Yesterday was Catherine Zeta Jones & Michael Douglas calling it over with their 13 years marriage! Despite saying some years ago that they are married for life and this is what they wanted as many criticize them for their huge age gap! Yet they remained together for 13 years! Like I always said that is 130 years in Hollywood standard! Then today is Clint Eastwood & wife Dina declared its done with their 17 years marriage! What is this all about! Every time someone calls to dissolve their marriage and take the backdoor to freedom, the devil laughs! Its sad to know that it is so often with our world today!
Why do couples claimed they grew apart? I do not know! I was a victim of love growing apart once and that person just walked out without an explanation to why he just no longer want to do life with me anymore! It hurts me no end but then we weren't married yet and I am glad life takes a turn for the best in-spite it all!
My only assurance is my faith in God that will keep us together! Keeping Jesus in the center of our marriage and my dream of being the Proverbs 31 wife to be supportive and encouraging, to be a praying wife! And may the Lord preserve our love and that we will grow ever so in love as Christ's love bear fruit in us! Amen!
Not to look at those in the entertainment industry but as of normal people. The list makes me smile to know that there is still hope in this world. There are so many couples that remain married and the longest married couple is celebrating their 87 years together! Now that is sweet! Just like the famous quote that goes:
Before I start rambling, I will start off by now I know why Desaru is the cheapest land in the Monopoly "Malaysian Tourism Edition" board game. Looking back to the times when my sister and I were in our adolescence, we used to play this & we used to avoid buying Desaru unless we are nearing Bankrupt! Ha! Ha! Desaru & Morib to be precise! Now I know why Desaru is worthless in that piece of games and the game developer is NOT wrong in putting it there! Kudos to you for doing your research! Maybe the next time I choose to do a little Malaysian Touring, I should consult my old Monopoly board game to see which place is the most expansive! If I am not mistaken and my memory still serves me well, the most expansive place has got to be CAMERON HIGHLANDS!
Many years has passed since that silly board games, we all grown and have learned so much and even improved in stages of our lives! Sadly Desaru remains the same!
Hubby and I did a little road trip two days ago during the Hari Raya long weekend off, we didn't want to go far because we just came back from a long trip so we decided to do a day kind of thing! Where else? Desaru then! Ever since moving to Johor we have not been there before and to be a part of Johor and never been to Desaru is like being a part of a gym but never actually tried all the facilities in it! (Kinda!)
So we woke up early and got ready to hit the roads with our bear bear boys! After everyone were packed into "Starship" (We have names for our cars! Hubby's is called Superbass) we started our journey! Hubby suggested just having lunch there, so we ate our breakfast at home and since Desaru is only an hour drive from the city, we were alright, we didnt ate too much! The journey was alright because kudos to the new road "Senai-Desaru Highway" so it was a comfortable drive! Toll was RM16 for to and fro!
We are welcomed by rows of hotels, the only presentable hotel in Desaru is LOTUS Desaru! That is because they are quite new! From outside it looks nice but all the other hotels are either run down or abandon or halfway build! So much for a "tourist" spot!
Well after many years, my earliest memory of Desaru was like 15 years ago when my dad brought us there and nothing much has changed! The beach is still the same small dirty place with over-flowing rubbish bins and cloak drains and smelly rubbish strewn everywhere! We were there for less than 10 minutes so we decided to walk around and go search for food to eat! A few vendors were selling "tourist-types" stuff by the road side and bunch of ice-cream stalls were there to attract the pestering kids!
It was one big part of disappointment to see the condition of our beaches, deteriorating one by one! My friend once told me, "Malaysia nowadays do not have nice presentable public beaches anymore! The nicer ones are either ruin due to no preservation or an expansive resort has bought it over to make it private for their guests only!" Now looking at Desaru I can't agree with him more! That is just sad! Very Sad! To make it worst, there is a signboard suggesting another side of "Public Beach" so we drove all the way to the other side to find there is a long Q building up, so we waited to realize that the so called "Public Beach" needs an entrance and parking fee! Duh! Public you called it! So we U-turn and head back to ou mission of filling our stomach!
We drove around and ended at Sungai Renggit, the end of Desaru and the beginning of rows and rows of seafood restaurants! Well the area is overflowed with people - PEOPLE FROM SINGAPORE! They flood that area by tonnes and tonnes of cars, so the seafood area was packed and parking was an issue! Parking is always an issue here in Malaysia and with Singaporeans coming in to fight for our seafood and parking and space and not to say TOOTHPASTE, we are with more problem than ever! So we turn around the small seafood town and finally found a parking! Now we walk, to find that every seafood place was full with people standing and waiting and waiting!
We got a rule "NEVER Q FOR YOUR FOOD" but seems like we have to break the rule! So we picked one and started to "ACT MALAYSIAN" (How?! Stand by the side of the table of people that is about to finish and waited and waited till they are finished, then start putting our handbag and stuff on the chair before remnant of food were cleared away!) We choose this restaurant by the name of YOU KEES SEAFOOD RESTAURANT! Here we met the most arrogant bastardic business person EVER! After waiting for freaking one and half hours for our place, the moronic auntie came to us with the bastardic face and said "IF YOU WANT TO EAT YOU HAVE TO WAIT 2 HOURS FOR YOUR FOOD! WE GOT TOO MANY CUSTOMERS" and because hubby's Mandarin wasn't good he didn't catch her sentences and hubby told her to come take our order! She repeated LOUDLY AGAIN "I SAY YOU HAVE TO WAIT 2 HOURS FOR THE FOOD, YOU STILL WANT TO EAT! 2 HOURS YOU KNOW!!!" It is sort of telling us, you two person only, we are not serving you! We are only interested in serving more than 5 people in a table, other than that please blah! Well I guess we shouldn't break the rules we have for ourselves! NO queuing for our food no matter how hungry!
So we ended up eating MarryBrown! The only fast food restaurant in the area! The Fast food chain is full with people, couples and I guess they suffered the same fate as us! Nobody wants to serve them! Because I overheard a conversation of a family of 4 in the table next to us "Better eat MarryBrown - No need to be shouted at and have to "see people face" (meaning letting people be mean and rude to us - Chinese direct translation), at least here we have air-con" I couldn't help but smile and nod in agreement with them ;)
As for the trip! I enjoyed my day out with hubby! BUT we are NEVER EVER going back to DESARU! Thank you very muchie!
No! I did not buy anything from groupon again! Well like how people used to say "Once bitten, twice shy, twice bitten never TRY" I guess I am shy (seldom am like that) when it comes to Groupon! More to never try again (ever)! Groupon really fuck up (Sorry! I tried not to swear that often anymore) all the deals and proper business doing.
I am looking for a hotel to actually celebrate my FIL's (Father in Law) birthday. When I Google the hotels and famous restaurants info, I only come to realize that these outlets is or had advertised in Groupon and they are slashing price up to 50%! (Damn!)
It surely felt good to be able to finish a book and not just a book but a trilogy with pages as thick as the encyclopedia. Well at least that is how I felt when I flipped the last page of my first borrowed book : INKHEART TRILOGY.
When it comes to reading, I am not really a fan of autobiography coz its someone else's journey and usually famous people who made it! What about thousands even millions others who had the same dream but not the 'luck' or opportunity? Autobiographies are a bore to me unless maybe with the exception for interesting people like Abraham Lincoln, the man who brought new American Era with the Emancipation Proclamation or maybe Martin Luther King just for his speech 'I have a dream' or maybe one of the Pharaohs like King Tut or Ramesses II - given my fascination with the Ancient Egypt Civilization & Yes I had read all those mentioned above ;)
I am also not a fan of self help, motivation book! Err! This is boring redefine to the highest level! It is kind of cool to be sitting at the sidewalk cafe or for Malaysian is Starbucks or Coffee Bean holding (half reading without minding the words) one of these suckers! Like How to be a better person, how to value happiness and blah blah blah! For me, my life experience is made by jumping into the water and waddle my way through most of the time with nothing but The Bible as my guide or maybe some Max Lucado books! Other than that my life is not determine by "To be Happy I need to take Step 1 then reflect on Step 2 and list down Step 3". I usually lost interest halfway through Chapter one! To be honest : One can be happy if they decide in their mind to push aside and rise above their fears and unhappiness not by reading some motivational ala self help book! Yeah right! Why not buy a Happy Meal instead?! Coz its a Happy Meal!
Nothing compare to reading a management book. These books are usually very painful to go through. I hardly could keep up with the things suggested, what more to practice them! All the theories are too deep but nonetheless kudos to Donald Trump, John Maxwell, C.S.Lewis for all the writing but nah! I pass! I am not smart and I will not pretend to be! Ditto!
I usually enjoy good old fiction! I like to be imaginative! I am attracted to these books more than all those mentioned above! I love to imagine, a place far a way with characters that I do not know and do some snooping without feeling guilty and to feel what they are going through and when all those feelings unnerved me, I can just close the book and come back to it another time.
I recently joined the public library here in Johor and I discovered a world full of books but sad to say that public libraries in Malaysia are so run down and not maintain in a good way, there are leakage here and there, books are old and shabby, the collections are very limited. How do you encourage people to read if your library is in a shamble? No wonder Malaysian's mentality that I faced when I browsed through the limited row of books that few girls exclaimed in Mandarin "How come so old still here in the library?" I stared at them in dismay to know that these are the future generations of Malaysia! A nation that stop to seek knowledge is a dead nation! What makes you think that we can only read when we are in school?! So what we do after school? We leave the books behind and turn our backs on them? Certainly not! We continue to read and improve our vocabs and knowledge! My goodness, it makes me sad!
When I went to the UK, Europe and States, people read books everywhere they go! When they are waiting for tube, waiting in line or just casually lounging on the park, these people read no matter how young or old they are! They are never without a book! From small young tykes to grandmas tending their energetic grandchildren they read! Here in Malaysia we have our young asking why "a person after school" is here in the library! It is weird to be call old and above all sad to be jeered at for wanting to find a book to lost myself in! Sad!
Happy New Year 2013! We make it through 2012! Yay! Always can't help but wonder, generations after us will look back to 2012 and say "wow these folks are old fashioned!" and we will be referred to as "early century people!" like how we look at early 1900 folks! Ha! Ha! Nonetheless live the best we can so that in-spite it all, we still can be a fashionable happening lot!
Well been sick for almost a week! What a great way to ring in the new year! Been down and out since the day after Christmas! Aiks! Cancelled all my plans and didnt get to meet all our friends (hubby's included!), no steamboat and all the food I make a list to eat! Only half of it chomped before my health decided to slack on me! And no KARAOKE! (Arrggh! That is the worst part of the holiday!) Well please treat me better ya 2013! Hope that this sick sick girl will be better and less sickness this new year! I am still sick and fever returned to visit yesterday! So a lot of prayers needed as I am better today! I am gearing to becoming better and not going to reflect on being sick! Did all my laundry and household chores purposely yesterday to "sweat it out" instead of laying in bed and swear it out! Ha! Ha! One thing for sure coming home to our own home has already make me feel a lot better! Eventhough I was sick the second half of the holiday I have a lot to be thankful for! Family times that we spend together was great! Love it! All the makan sana and makan sini and also gifts exchanged with family members! (Oh bummer! Now received gifts as one unit TO: MR & MRS Chan... All household goodies! Thankful!) Being sick also make me thankful to have hubby in my life! How he took care of me! Bringing me food and carrying me around to see doctors and blood test, patiently sitting next to me as I try to catch some sleep, changing and cleaning after me! It is a blessing indeed! Thank God!
Here in 2012, I have learned, gained, lost and found a lot of things!
I have learned to be a wife, ways of doing business and to forgive is the best way to live including people who deliberately hurt me!
I have gained weight! Yeap! & also my relationship with God is so much rewarding and closer! Amen!
I had also lost someone that called himself close to me but after having a girlfriend he seems to pull away and never was to be seen for anymore!
I have found out who my true friends are only a few (sadly! But enough to get by!) and also found out that being thankful counts for 90% of happiness in life!
Happy 2013!