The Shrink - Slimming Centers Lesson
A BIG issue
Of late there is an issue that is playing at the back of my mind! An issue that I felt strongly about. Everything in a women is being judge, from the head to the toe! Comments were passed from men and even from women! "Why is she such a slob" "That is one hell of a fat ass" "Where did she get those ugly shoes from" "Her hair needs trimming" and so on and so forth. These are some of the criticism I have overheard someone passed onto another and even some were said to me about a friend or two!
It is well rude but if you ladies are so well groom and naturally fits into size 2 without breaking a sweat then talk away! Sadly most of these words are said by people who are a little less than size 12 and worst still men in their slippers and pajamas t-shirt! The biggest punishment should come from a man who talks about his own wife without respect! "That fat lady at home" "That yellow face woman!" and etcetra etcetra! Well here is my comment about such harsh name calling!
You have no right to be calling your wife or any woman for that matter that way! Ask yourself
1) Did you earn enough for her to get help? Slimming? Facial? Nutritionist advise?
2) Did you provide her with an environment that enables her to have gym? Pool? or anything that suggest exercise?
3) Did you cringe the moment she try on a dress?
4) Complaint so much when she wanted a new pair of shoes?
5) Give her time out to be with her girlfriends?
6) Your mom and your sisters are all slim and proper and trim!
7) Are you Calvin Klein Model enough to pass judgement!
Please evaluate yourself before calling your wife or any lady fat, ugly or boring! Especially if that lady chose you out of so many other people and decided to let her former beauty goes by bearing your children! Come on! If you have fulfill the criterias above then it is the lady's fault for slacking! Get up ladies and hit the gym! Break out in sweats! Its sexy but please NO FACEBOOK POSTING! Nobody needs to see you in your sport bra all sweaty! Thank-you-very-much!
The most adverse feeling I could develop is a fat-ass sitting with his other equally deadbeat friends criticizing every person that walks by! Geez! I have been victim of those and I believe a lot of us had experienced that! Ok unless you are a supermodel! But then it can be quite harsh and it used to hurt me a lot earlier on but now I just don't bother! My point in this is be kind to one another and do not criticize! Hey its rude you know! Plus ladies remember one thing "One of the best thing that you can give your man other than standing by his side is looking good! He appreciates that!"
People Do Not Stay In Love Anymore?
With news of celebrities splitting left, right and center. From Japan, Korea to Bollywood and Hollywood we are informed everyday by whos and whos have split! It is really sad not because of who they are but because the essence of marriage has lost its meaning! People do not stay in love anymore! With quotes ranging from I grew out of love, we just grew apart, we do not have anything in common anymore being reasons behind separations and divorces, it seems meaningless to ever find a mate in the first place!
Yesterday was Catherine Zeta Jones & Michael Douglas calling it over with their 13 years marriage! Despite saying some years ago that they are married for life and this is what they wanted as many criticize them for their huge age gap! Yet they remained together for 13 years! Like I always said that is 130 years in Hollywood standard! Then today is Clint Eastwood & wife Dina declared its done with their 17 years marriage! What is this all about! Every time someone calls to dissolve their marriage and take the backdoor to freedom, the devil laughs! Its sad to know that it is so often with our world today!
Why do couples claimed they grew apart? I do not know! I was a victim of love growing apart once and that person just walked out without an explanation to why he just no longer want to do life with me anymore! It hurts me no end but then we weren't married yet and I am glad life takes a turn for the best in-spite it all!
My only assurance is my faith in God that will keep us together! Keeping Jesus in the center of our marriage and my dream of being the Proverbs 31 wife to be supportive and encouraging, to be a praying wife! And may the Lord preserve our love and that we will grow ever so in love as Christ's love bear fruit in us! Amen!
Not to look at those in the entertainment industry but as of normal people. The list makes me smile to know that there is still hope in this world. There are so many couples that remain married and the longest married couple is celebrating their 87 years together! Now that is sweet! Just like the famous quote that goes:














