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The Shrink - Slimming Centers Lesson

Well, when I said "the shrink" it wasn't about psychologist or mental cases! It is directly about shrinking down.... Today I am going to be slashing (alright maybe it is a bit direct, let me rephrase) Today I am going to be sharing about Slimming Centers... I remembered trying slimming center prior to my wedding day! To be honest and my advice will be "NEVER EVER.. EVER EVER walked into these centers to sign up their packages no matter how desperate or fat you are! Always try the healthier way of losing weight! It is through eating healthy and exercise" 

Let me tell you why! 

1.     Once you are in you can never get out! 
o    They eventually set some really hard to achieve "IDEAL WEIGHT" for their customers during the beginning of the package and promise to make you size 2, irregardless of what size you are now! They promise you it is achievable if you strictly follow whatever that they tell you to do! 
o    The catch?!? Well the ideal weight is not what the body mass index tells you! It is what they define as SLIM! And with that said SLIM means you are 50 kgs or below no matter you are five feet one or six feet!  
o    From my experience : I am 5ft 7 inches tall and my ideal weight should be around 62 to 65 kgs. That is healthy weight! I remembered going through their 10 full courses package and weighing around 63kgs at that time! Yes I have lost about 8kgs within that 7 weeks! By the time I am leaving I was pestered to sign on too another 5 more full courses, because apparently 63kgs is NOT an ideal weight for my height and that I should achieved 55kgs. I told them I felt lighter and I am happy with my current weight, I could fit right into my old clothes and I am ok! Well they start telling me the consequences of stopping halfway and that frightens me a lot, so I obediently signed on to another 5 more courses since I still have time till my wedding.
o    To be honest no matter how hard I tried to repeat what I did to lose my earlier 8kgs I could never do it! And the reason that my weight consultant tell me?! Its because the first 8kgs were water retention so it was easily lost, now you are losing only 2kgs is because we are hitting at the stubborn fats and usually it takes longer to fight! Hence in saying so, she introduced me to "Coffee Detox & Lavender Cleansing" which is out of the signed package! She guaranteed that by progressing these packages, my "stubborn" fats will be gone in no time! Did I sign? NO! 
o    HOW DID I GET OUT?! I wait till there is one more course left and I never walk back there again no matter how many phone calls they gave me! 
2.     Advertise price is never the ACTUAL price
o    Be careful of the price you are signing as it will usually turn out to be more expansive than you budgeted for! Let's say you were firm enough to never take up the second round! One round is enough! You are still FORCE to buy their Special Oat Meals, Coffee Product as it is compulsory for "HOME CARE" to go along with the diet list that they gave you! These coffee and oat meals and what-nots are not mentioned when you sign on to their package and you underwent the first slimming programs! It usually comes in the second round or maybe further along the course!
o    Price of those?! Usually cost more than the package itself! They usually will pushed you to take bulk as taking one by one will double the price! Well do you have a choice since you are already in it?! You will have to willingly hand over your credit card. 
o    Other Adds on that is not in the primary packages eg : Coffee Detox & Lavender Cleansing is one of them! Then there are also Coffee Massage to clear stubborn fats and also not to forget firming and slim wrap that is also compulsory once you have slim down more than 5kgs!
3.     Easy come easy go! You end up gaining more weights than you have lost!
o    As fast as you lose those weight by electrocuting, sauna, hot blanketing & drinking tonnes of slimming coffee you will most certainly gained it back
o    They will always blamed it on you not finishing the course and not wanting to sign on to more courses hence all your initial weight lost are not actual weight lost but just water lost! You must continue their plans to be able to lose more which is the actual fats! (What more to lose other than your money I would say!)
o    Slimming centres will show you the pictures of successful ladies who had slimmed down and stayed the same for years which is always the same catchphrase : These ladies NEVER gained back their weight even after 3 years because they were with us and still with us until today! So what you are indicating is that you are like a drug that we cannot shake lose! 


Therefore my points are simple! There is no easy way to anything at all! As tempting as the deals are, they are hazardous! After stopping slimming center, I got married - slim but NOT skinny like a lot of brides! I gained back the weight I lost in fact close to double BUT now I have lost almost 10kgs of it! How I do it?! Well I started exercising and eating healthy for the past 8 months, the progress is slow but it's well worth it! I never felt so healthy in my life! My final reminder : You might lose weight fast with slimming centers but it is the slimming centers that you will never be able to lose once you have step right in! For many of us who are average income earners, it is something that we cannot afford to sign on for long run! Live healthy, be wise! ;) 

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A BIG issue

"The men can look like slobs, but women are expected to look nice! What's fair about that?" 
~Marcella Boone - Theodore Boone's Mom in Theodore Boone: The abduction~ 

Of late there is an issue that is playing at the back of my mind! An issue that I felt strongly about. Everything in a women is being judge, from the head to the toe! Comments were passed from men and even from women! "Why is she such a slob" "That is one hell of a fat ass" "Where did she get those ugly shoes from" "Her hair needs trimming" and so on and so forth. These are some of the criticism I have overheard someone passed onto another and even some were said to me about a friend or two! 

It is well rude but if you ladies are so well groom and naturally fits into size 2 without breaking a sweat then talk away! Sadly most of these words are said by people who are a little less than size 12 and worst still men in their slippers and pajamas t-shirt! The biggest punishment should come from a man who talks about his own wife without respect! "That fat lady at home" "That yellow face woman!" and etcetra etcetra! Well here is my comment about such harsh name calling!

You have no right to be calling your wife or any woman for that matter that way! Ask yourself
1) Did you earn enough for her to get help? Slimming? Facial? Nutritionist advise?
2) Did you provide her with an environment that enables her to have gym? Pool? or anything that suggest exercise?
3) Did you cringe the moment she try on a dress?
4) Complaint so much when she wanted a new pair of shoes?
5) Give her time out to be with her girlfriends?
6) Your mom and your sisters are all slim and proper and trim!
7) Are you Calvin Klein Model enough to pass judgement!

Please evaluate yourself before calling your wife or any lady fat, ugly or boring! Especially if that lady chose you out of so many other people and decided to let her former beauty goes by bearing your children! Come on! If you have fulfill the criterias above then it is the lady's fault for slacking! Get up ladies and hit the gym! Break out in sweats! Its sexy but please NO FACEBOOK POSTING! Nobody needs to see you in your sport bra all sweaty! Thank-you-very-much!

The most adverse feeling I could develop is a fat-ass sitting with his other equally deadbeat friends criticizing every person that walks by! Geez! I have been victim of those and I believe a lot of us had experienced that! Ok unless you are a supermodel! But then it can be quite harsh and it used to hurt me a lot earlier on but now I just don't bother! My point in this is be kind to one another and do not criticize! Hey its rude you know! Plus ladies remember one thing "One of the best thing that you can give your man other than standing by his side is looking good! He appreciates that!"


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People Do Not Stay In Love Anymore?

With news of celebrities splitting left, right and center. From Japan, Korea to Bollywood and Hollywood we are informed everyday by whos and whos have split! It is really sad not because of who they are but because the essence of marriage has lost its meaning! People do not stay in love anymore! With quotes ranging from I grew out of love, we just grew apart, we do not have anything in common anymore being reasons behind separations and divorces, it seems meaningless to ever find a mate in the first place! 

Yesterday was Catherine Zeta Jones & Michael Douglas calling it over with their 13 years marriage! Despite saying some years ago that they are married for life and this is what they wanted as many criticize them for their huge age gap! Yet they remained together for 13 years! Like I always said that is 130 years in Hollywood standard! Then today is Clint Eastwood & wife Dina declared its done with their 17 years marriage! What is this all about! Every time someone calls to dissolve their marriage and take the backdoor to freedom, the devil laughs! Its sad to know that it is so often with our world today! 

Why do couples claimed they grew apart? I do not know! I was a victim of love growing apart once and that person just walked out without an explanation to why he just no longer want to do life with me anymore! It hurts me no end but then we weren't married yet and I am glad life takes a turn for the best in-spite it all! 

My only assurance is my faith in God that will keep us together! Keeping Jesus in the center of our marriage and my dream of being the Proverbs 31 wife to be supportive and encouraging, to be a praying wife! And may the Lord preserve our love and that we will grow ever so in love as Christ's love bear fruit in us! Amen!

Not to look at those in the entertainment industry but as of normal people. The list makes me smile to know that there is still hope in this world. There are so many couples that remain married and the longest married couple is celebrating their 87 years together! Now that is sweet! Just like the famous quote that goes:

The greatest love story is not Romeo & Juliet dying together,
but grandpa & grandma that grew old together.  


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Another Grandeur Beginning


(In the voice of Barney Stinson) 
hash-tag next chapter of our life, hash-tag a dream came true, hash-tag life's great, hash-tag luxury apartment, hash-tag penthouse, hash-tag blessing from the Heavenly Father & hash-tag AWESOME 

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My-wannabe-smart-QUOTE OF THE DAY #9

Girls, remember when we were born our parents clothed us with the best crowning jewelry they could afford and make us princess! Now we are grown NEVER treat yourself any less... 
Find a man who adores you like a queen, respect you as the leading lady and look at you with the eyes of love after all we are worth it!
Ask God & mom - they knew best!

(As for me! Yeah! I found that man! Thank God)
xoxo 
Sharon

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Happy Belated Post...2013 (Part 2)


I am a very blessed girl ;) I might not have many gazillions friends to surround me or remember my birthday but I was blessed with a family who loves me endlessly - including my father in law! It fact it was my father-in-law's suggestion that they flew in to celebrate my birthday! I was really happy to have them! I was touched that they took extra effort to book the cake in advance and had it arranged to be picked up near my place! Touched! 

Here is my sis! My BFF, I think we are growing to be more alike though!
Especially our chin area! Duh!

Now you got the answer to where we got the chin from!
Miss spending time with her eating dessert and shopping while having long chats! 
Arrgh.. Sob! Sob! I miss my mommy!

My father in law too wanna take picture!

Of course the husband must be a part of the pictures taking
Hold tight tight to hubby's fat belly! He! He!
What right do I have to laugh! I am equally fat! Duh!

Although it was nothing of a big celebration but I really do enjoyed the time we get to spend with one another! Now that hubby and I are in Johor, we spend so less time with our family! Family is one of the most precious wealth and I am blessed to have them and we are all so closely knitted. I missed a lot of things that is home - Klang but then as much as I adapt, here Johor is my home now! A place where we have blend in. Remembering the first day when we moved here! I was so frighten by the way people conduct themselves here but somehow 18 months has made my skin thicker and I have learned to block out those people's attitude! My best defense is always to pretend I do not understand Mandarin to corner them from talking to me and to act all debonair so that they will leave me alone or stand in awe! He! He! It works most of the time! 

There are 101 things that I missed about home! One of it will be the great Klang food! Yummy! Yum! Yum! I hope we will be going back soon! He! He! Wanna chunk down all ze' food! Well talking about food! We went for seafood dinner right after cake. We decided to try this seafood restaurant because the one we wanted was way too full with people and we did not make reservations! So we end up next door! Well the things are a bit more expansive compare to the one next door! We had quite a lot of things and the bill was quite a lot of money as well! Thanks to both parents for 'belanja-ing' us.

Our big appetites had us wallop all that was serve on the table! 
Hence this is what that was left! 

Overall 30 is not what I imagine it to be but it was indeed better than I imagine! Sometimes we just have to trust God and not try to take matters into our own hands! We want to be in control but in the end when we let go we just cannot help it but realize that life itself takes a turn for the best & there is no one I am more thankful towards - MY DEAR LORD JESUS ;) 

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Happy Belated Post... 2013 (Part 1)


The big 3-0 has finally came! Oops it came like a month ago, but I was too caught up with nothings to be posting this but anyway its been great! My husband who does not excel in "SURPRISES" did matter-of-fact well! I am happy, he took the effort to book my favorite cake "CREME BRULE CHEESECAKE" from the Cheese Cake Factory where Penny works (Alright no more jokes). I wasn't expecting more than just a simple dinner! But he made the effort and that reminds me I am blessed beyond my dreams! 


As usual! How can any events be happening without my boys?! 
They will always be around that corner asking to joined in the "FUN" 
See them checking out the cakes! As always the inspector commandos! 
Ha! Ha!

Do I feel any different now that I am 30?! Well maybe a little older?! (Psychologically!) but overall I felt like I am still 12 (I haven't feel any different since 12 - YEAH RIGHT!) Ok! Maybe I don't feel 12 or 22, I don't even feel like 25 anymore! If you ask me! I've done crazy things back then and doesn't feel an ounce of tiredness! But now I just wanna hang by the pool side or at home, enjoy a glass of red wine and read. (Yeap just read) Life is different now! And I do not have to be reminded! I AM A WIFE NOW! (Great! You should think it matures me! Maybe a little older but I am still that old goofy self I am!)



Alright back to hubby's great surprise! Well he made the effort to book in advance (it is a big thing considering that he is more to "What-you-want-to-eat-walk-in-impromptu" kind of guy! He brought me to a swanky place name Lido 8. A really nice place facing the straits and renovated like an Italian grotto. Very nice to dine, wine and unwind! Love it. The environment is nice and romantic except for the super big screen that have Matrix-Reloaded on! Well so much for romantic dinner if we are so distracted by Keanu doing his ever famous matrix stunt with his shades on! Geez! But it is ok coz we are married! Ha! Ha! I end up learning something about husband! (He is a Matrix fan) and we were talking about Matrix half of the entire dinner. Nope hubby did not convince me this time to be a Matrix fan like he did Star Trek! I am a TREKKIE! Duh! Never thought I would be!

My dinner Cod Fish with Black Caviar
Very nice and juicy! Love it 

Celebration would be complete now with my all time favorite cocktail
'Mai Tai' 

I wouldn't ask for more! This is really something wonderful! Nothing means more than this! And I thank God for sending me a man who eventually builds into my life and make me a better person! 


Yes! I am a happy girl indeed! Being 30 makes me happy but being married to a man who loves me for who I am makes it complete ;) And now I go out without much make-ups that covers me like in the past! I used to have faith in make-ups, now I have faith in God who makes me beautiful and the assurance that I am beautiful by the words of a man send by Him! Thank you Jesus!

Here he is! My man, my love, my king, my everything - MY Hubby ;) 

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