Its Friday and everything suppose to be cherry. I am just uploading my second final sets of honeymoon pictures, now all that is left is France! Once uploaded I can move on to compiling my wedding pictures and it is another task to do as I have thousands to go through! And then I have to go figure out how to burn em into the CDs for distribution.
Alright, Facebook can be one of the most amusing thing to watch if you are bored! There you get to really know you friends and what were they thinking, some were cam-addicts - taking pictures of everything and anything from what they eat, to where they go and so on and so forth, some are check-in addicts - all you see of them is their location at the current time! They go to all the posh and chic places (of course nobody checks in at Pasar Malam so and so (night market)), while some are greeter and encouragement addicts - they love to do the copy and paste from some wise sayings and they will greet you good morning, good afternoon and good night every appropriate hour and then there are some, like me - games addicts - I know its annoying to always post "Sharon needs a spatula for her new recipe for Cafe World" ha! ha! But that's just me! Everybody got their annoying quirks! That's mine!
Worst of all the group is "THE DOWNER" they are the negative, self-pity geared charging addicts. They seek to gain attention from their pain and unhappiness! Worst of it is that, this people are guys! My friend! He finds it easy to gain a girl's attention by playing his "I am sick and stress" card. It is easy BUT the outcome that he suffers right after that is "There is no potential what-so-ever" I have sat with him throughout or maybe half of his heartbreaks and rejections! I have told him to keep that "I am sick and stress" card or try replacing it with "I am strong and will do all i can to fight it" card! But he refuse! Eventually this is the pattern that he follows. New girl --> likely potential to develop --> go out for a meal --> add her in facebook --> continue whining like usual about stuff --> no potential whatsoever!
What do girls really want? We have reality show that somehow confusing about "what men want" BUT then let me put this in a precise short non-confusing manner. Girls just want someone who is stronger than her, if she is already a very independent girl, show her why she needs to let her guards down. Girls need someone who is decisive, although we know how to make our own decisions but it is always safe to hear a man who cares enough to tell us that he knows better than us and will stick around to prove it. Girls need determination, someone who doesn't easily give up and throw in the towel the moment, the going gets tough! Girls need a man who loves what he is doing, that proves that he is able to bring in security and am a bread-winner for the family. We or maybe some of us if not all! Hates a man who complaints about how stress he is at work and how much datelines he has at work! It is good to share with us about job and complaints about matters at hand just because you need someone to talk to NOT because you are a downer and were always negative! No matter how much one handles, the moment you come up with "so many calls to take each day" (oh you take calls? I thought you say you are a manager??!!??) that is what we don't understand! And also a girl doesn't like a man that boast! If you are currently at this level in your life do not try to act as though you are more than you are, it is better to be upfront and honest than to have to lose her the moment the truth comes out! A girl will accept you for who you really are if you are real!
Hence from all the things that I say! I would say that a girl, irregardless needs A MAN! Not a boy who thinks he can! Think about it the next time you complaint that you have a lot of work and that you are going to shoot down someone at work! Coz a man doesn't whine about his work or anything he is facing on facebook! Only a boy does!
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