Well when it comes to living life positively! It is easier said than done! People will always have opinions!
- We live luxuriously people will say "Save up money! You are living too boisterously!" and if we live moderately saving everything we have, people will say "Husband can make money YET she live like a pauper! Must be stingy couple" People are always going to have comments!
- Here is another one, now I am a stay home wife and I find some crafts and arts and new dishes to try, when people heard or saw those works, they will say sarcastically "She is a stay home wife! Got nothing to do so do all this thing!" and if I work my 9 to 5 and don't do anything they will say "Husband and family also do not know how to take care! Does she know how to play a character of a wife?!" Well! Day to day, we are drown by opinions of people that do not know how to see the good in other people!
- Here comes another one, if we bought a luxury handbag (because we could afford! No burden or credit card mess!) people's opinion : "This lady is such a spend-thrift! Spending money like water" (well that is the proverb used by Chinese) and add on if I say I went to Europe and get the bag for just MYR3500 (2/3 of the actual price in Malaysia) people will say "Is it real bag??!!??" or people will add on "Go to Europe and buy, calculating the airfare is about the same" well words AGAIN!
These are words, sharing from my own experience! It can knock the "Fun-shine" out of me! But I am a positive person, always cheerful like my mom and auntie used to say! But at times when I am down, the Holy Spirit always let me read something or experience something that lift my spirit up! My cure : The Holy Spirit! These are some of the words that I read and a compilation of words that encourages me! Hope it will help you, the way they helped me!
I always felt encourage when i read this! He is far greater than all my problems add together!
and the positive thing about this "He never let us go through situations that He has not given us strength to go through" So like Mariah sings "I can make it through the rain" Amen!
I have walked this path before, I have heard every venomous words spat against me!
I heard those hurtful words related back to me and even-though I was angry, it broke my heart more!
But somehow I was given strength NOT to fight or criticize back (even-though I am tempted to do so) and these are the words that rings clear! And by that I won the battle-round
and I still have all the friends stick to me! Thanks peeps!
One word that I couldn't forget :
"She has no money one! Say hubby is a management so and so! I asked her to buy a Burberry on discount also doesn't want! I am getting one! You wanna come see my Burberry!"
Well the answer now??!!??
"I don't want a Burberry on discount! God has blessed me with the ability to go to Europe and buy a real Louis Vuitton!" Kudos!
This is related to the one above!
I am glad I didnt respond! Although at that time I am called weak and the guilty one!
I knew and I was assured by my hubby, I wasn't what she said
and he loves me for who I am! Amen! I am glad I am not like them!
Before I wrapped up this post, I hope you are encourged by my words, just like above state:
"The biggest shame you could do to the people who brought you down is
Stand taller than you once were! And prove to people that you are genuine!
Stay real if you know you are wrongfully accused!
God bless ;)
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